Holy crap, I swear that everyone in my family is made up of pasta and meat. Over the past few weeks with all of the family spending so many meals together and nobody really in the mood to get fancy and do much cooking, the dinner go to’s have been either some type of pasta, potato, or bread with meat dish. Super meat and starchy as hell. (there is usually a veggie somewhere) Good thing I pack my own lettuce and carrots where ever I go.(no joke) But can’t blame them really. Food has not been top priority. If they will eat pasta, well then that’s what they will eat and the veggies are starting to make there way back. (I am making zucchini noodles for family dinner tonight)
But yesterday the mr and I spent the day just the two of us (it has been so long) and made dinner at home. I, as well as the mr, wanted nothing to do with pasta, potatoes, or bread. (he even passed up pizza…. what the WHAT) Just simple dinner with no one to cook for, no picky little littles to have to contend with and a fridge full of all the prettiest fresh veggies I can eat!
We (really me) went all out fresh with a hugmongo salad of broccoli and lentils. Super quick and easy to make, really fresh, crispy, and hardy. A salad just for us, although I think I might make it again for tonight to bring to the sisters house for dinner.
A salad that that makes me (and the mr) happy to eat and will make you happy too!
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The stuff. A nice nig head of broccoli, a small red onion, half an avocado, some dried lentils, water, red wine vinegar and salt and pepper.
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Start by getting those lentils and water into a pot and on the stove to cook. Bring to boil then turn to a simmer, stick on a lid and let cook until lentils are tender but not mushy. (about 20 minutes)
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Once you have got those going, chop up the broccoli and the onion into little bits(various size is a ok)
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Toss those chopped up veggies into anice bowl and add a good few splashes of vinegar and sprinkle with salt ans pepper. Give it a good toss and let it sit on the counter to meld while the lentils are cooking.
Oh hey, those lentils be cooked. Dump the whole pot (if there is little extra liquid, dump that in too) into the bowl of chopped veggies and toss it all around.
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And lastly , slice up the avocado into chunks (smallish sized) and gently mix that in.
Hooray! A no pasta, starch, mayo smothered salad for everyone!
Happy eating.
-C
Serves 3-4 as a side. 2 as a meal
- 1 big head of broccoli (about 2 1/2-3 cups chopped)
- 1/2 cup dried green lentils
- 1 1/4 cup water
- a small red onion
- 1/2 of a ripe avocado
- around 1/4 cup red wine vinegar
- salt and pepper
Place dried lentils into a pot with water. Bring to a boil then turn heat to a simmer and place a lid on pot. Cook for about 20 minutes or until the lentils are cooked, but still firm. If you think the lentils are still under cooked and there is not liquid in the pot, add another 1/4 cup.
While the lentils are cooking, grab a big bowl. Chop the broccoli into little pieces and toss into that bowl. Also chop up the red onion into thin slices then into smaller pieces (or big if you like it like that) and toss that in with the broccoli. Drizzle the chop with vinegar and sprinkle with salt. Set aside until the lentils are cooked.
Once the lentils are done and still hot, dump them in with the chop. Give a really good mix to combine it all then grab your avocado, cut it into little chunk and add it in and gently give it a toss. Season with more salt and pepper and if needed.
This is a salad that tastes good just made, really good 10 minutes later, but tastes best after sitting for an hour or two.
Whenever you decide to eat it, just grab a fork and dig in!
Not going to lie. Today is a hard day. It’s Sean’s birthday… He would be 27.
Thump thump (that’s my head hitting a wall)
I am not at the point yet where I think of Sean and am not sad because well, I am sad all the time. But I really want to get there, where when I think of him, it makes me happy, or well, more happy then sad. I know it’s going to take time (I just have to say that I hate how everyone says it just takes time. No shit) and that I will get there someday. But today, I am, for him and for me, try spending today thinking about all the good times and not be so sad.
So yeah, going to spend 1/2 the day doing some work (keeps the mind at bay) and the other half with the family. They are grilling up hot dogs while I eat lettuce by the head, and we are just going celebrate Sean the way we celebrate everything in our family. Together with food. We will sit around, talking about everything and nothing, let the littles run around , let the dogs run wild, and just be. The is sun is shinning, the world is warm, and the family will be surrounded by each other. (like everyday for the past two weeks.. so much family time) And of course Sean will be the center of attention, not there physically, but in all the spirit.
And as for taking the day to chill, I am postponing my day of nothing until tomorrow and locking my door on the world. I love my family oh so much but if I don’t take a day to myself… I might bite someones head off.
Anyway. Got some stuff from the good old internet that happen to be of some interest to me.
-Did you know it’s National Park Week.. National parks are the best so you should go get your butt to the closest one, it’s free! (Bring a picnic and some hiking boots)
– This coloring book needs to happen.
– I feel in love with these photos that a mom took of her kids. They are amazing
-Screw GI Joes, if you want plastic action figures get these. Yoga Joes
–House love.
-Ever wonder how museums keep their art collections clean? Check this guy out cleaning a Pollack. There is no way I could do anything close to that, I would loss my shit.
-I will be looking for this book next time I am at the library (for the littles of course) ‘Can I Eat That?’ a Whimsical New Children’s Book
–Tree houses in house plants.. two of my favorite things together in one.
-What Do Recyclable, Biodegradable & Compostable Really Mean?
-This is just one reason I avoid eating out.. I am paranoid, and for good reason… ‘Farm To Fable’? Tampa Probe Finds Many Restaurants Lie About Sourcing
Some new pictures from the past week.
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Hope everyone is having a great day and enjoying life.
Happy Birthday Sean, Love you!
-C
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There is a big difference between thinking about doing something and being motivated enough to actually do it. I have been thinking a lot about doing some baking (among other things, like being a functional human) but I haven’t been feeling all that motivated to actually do it. To my defence we haven’t really been home and food situations have been taking place at sisters or moms house. So yeah, can’t exactly bake a cake, take pictures, and not pull my hear out with 15 people running around the kitchen.. But yesterday I had the afternoon at home to get some shit done and it was the perfect time to open the door,(it wasalmost warm enough to have the door open!!!) put on some tunes, and bake a little something something before we headed over to dinner at my sisters.
Nothing to fancy or overly pretentious, just something that people will eat (especially my mom, she needs all the cake in the word). And a loaf because loafs travel well and sometimes a cake just calls for 90 degree angles. Chocolate because it’s chocolate (everyone likes chocolate) with and orange glaze for a slight pop of brightness and honestly, cause I bought a shit ton of oranges a few weeks back and they need to be used up asap.
A welcome back to the kitchen, simple chocolate loaf cake. And after it was devoured by the family (mom loved it) I thought aboutchanging the name to a “Freak Yeah, Damn Tasty, Super Fantastic, Simple Chocolate Cake”….. but that’s kind of a long name.
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The stuff. Got abowl with flour, cocoa powder, salt, baking soda and baking powder, and sugar. Then a cup of what is 1/2 soy milkand 1/2 coffee, some vanilla extract, a little apple cider vinegar, and some oil. That’s cake stuff. The glaze stuff is the powdered sugar, the orange, and another pinch of salt and splash of vanilla.
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Super simple. Whisk all the dry together
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Then just dump all the wet stuff into the dry and mix it all up until everything is evenly incorporated.
Batter goes into a greased loaf pan and into the oven…….45 minutes later…… it’s all cooked and stuff. Ttake it out and let it cool.
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While the cake is cooling, make that glaze. Powdered sugar, orange zest, a pinch of salt and a splash of vanilla go into a bowl. Whisk together with just enough orange juice to make it all come together and is all glaze like.
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When the cake is completely cooled, drizzle (dump) glaze all over cake. And really, make sure the cake is cooled or else the cake will just absorb the glaze.
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Drip drip drip…. Next time I will remember to do this over a plate or something, there is sugary glaze everywhere.
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And now the loaf cake is done, ready for eating.
Have a great day, get motivated and start planning for the WEEKEND! (Cake should be included in those plans)
-C
Makes one loaf cake
- 1 1/2 cups flour
- 1/3 cup cocoa powder
- 3/4 cup sugar
- 1 teaspoon baking soda
- 1 teaspoon baking powder
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 3/4 cups sugar
- 1/3 cup oil (any oil but if you use coconut, make sure it’s melted)
- 1/2 soy milk
- 1/2 cup brewed coffee
- 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
- 1 teaspoon vanilla
the glaze
- an orange (about a tablespoon of fresh zest and 1/2 the juice of half of the orange)
- 3/4 cup powdered sugar
- pinch of salt
- splash of vanilla
Preheat oven to 350
In a large bowl, mix together the flour, cocoa powder, sugar, salt, baking soda and powder. Dump in the rest of the ingredients and mix until evenly incorporated. Pour batter into a greased a 9x5loaf pan then stick into the oven. Bake for about 45 minutes or until a tester comes out clean
To make the glaze, mix the sugar, a tiny pinch of salt and the zest of the orange together. Add in a splash of vanilla and slowly add in orange juice until the glaze is the consistency that you want.(not to thick or to thin)
Once cake has completely cooled, drizzle the glaze all over the cake.
Now you can grab a knife, cut a slice,and call it a day.
Sean Tyler Stem. April 17, 1989- March 29, 2016
About a week and a half ago my little brother passed away of a drug overdose. Mother Fucker, fuck fucker fuck.
I am okay. I might not be in the best head space being that I am so fucking sad and feel wounded, but okay. . Everything just feels so weird. It’s like a part of me is missing but at the same time it still doesn’t seem real. So yeah. Fuck fuck fuck. (apparently I swear A LOT when I am sad)
I want people to know about Sean and what and why it happened, but at the same time I kinda don’t want to talk about it yet. It’s still really raw. Also I am not the greatest with emotions and right now I am still processing and feeling and just being. But I do want people to know that Sean may have had his problems but he was such amazing, kind, sometimes a cocky, but such a talented person. He was so full of the brightest light, laughter, generosity and so so much love. He really was a great person (and I am not just saying that cause he is dead) A person that I am so blessed and lucky to get to call my little brother. He made everyone smile, even when you didn’t feel like it. Every person that came into his life are greater for having had him here.
The rest of the family is doing. It’s so weird being together as a family without one of us, it seems so off because wealways do everything together and I keep getting that weird feeling that I am waiting for his ass to show up (he was always late for everything). Oh man, it’s a hurt that will not quit. So yeah, we have been spending all of our time together (so much togetherness it’s kinda sick). We laugh and cry and get angry and are sad, and go for walks and eat (well they eat. People keep bringing food, all meat pasta dishes so I am just nibbling on carrots… FYI people, sad people eat veggies too!) It’s been rough, but we have so much love for each other, the same sick sense of humor (the things we have been saying…and he can’t talk back. HA!) and are so close. We truly are so lucky to have each other. (even if we are driving each other crazy)
And Life, gots to keep doing it. So I am going to start trying to get a little consistency back into mine this week, start working on the house again, catch up on bills and paperwork, and clean the sheets on my bed. (it’s been 2 weeks.. gross) Also going to try and do a post or two… I miss it and the kitchen is my therapy.
I miss my little brother. He was such a shit, a good shit, but a shit no less. But just because he is dead doesn’t mean he doesn’t exist. He will always exist.
-C
Here is the obituary of Sean T Stem written by my sister Shannon with the help of her friend Hilary.
[Above photo was taken off of his facebook page. It’s one of my favorites.]
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For the longest time now, I have been drinking a little turmeric with a little lemon first thing in the morning. It started as a medicinal drink, but quickly became a tasty habit. I have some stupid weird circulation condition called raynaud’s where changes in temp turn my fingers and toes into icicles. And for me, the worst time of the year for this condition is the spring (but spring is still my favorite). All the up and down of temperature and the wet cold damp weather is my trigger, not to forget to mention that those temp swings can get a girl sick. (I can’t get sick!!)
So way back when I started to drink for my health and the feeling in my fingers. Turmeric, ginger, and cinnamon , all super warming spices that help greatly with blood circulation, not to mention a whole bunch of other good things. (I could tell you and go on and on, but you can just look it up yourself) Ever since I started drinking and eating lots of these spices, my raynauds has gotten soooo sooo soooo much better. I still get cold finger and toes, but no where as severe and the way less often.
Now a few weeks ago the mr started making himself an afternoon turmeric tea. He read something on the internet about how it’s the best anti-inflammatory and good for achy joints. (Sure dude, listen to the internet and not me) Being a big guy doing construction and such, he gets really achy joints and there is only so much arnica and frozen peas a guy can do. So now he drinks this and I think he is starting to notice a difference. (less time with the frozen peas) And since he is making himself tea every afternoon, I started to make a spicy tea for myself in the afternoons too. I figured that a little extra goodness to ward off the chills and any larking illness is only a plus. It’s our after lunch treat that tastes good, is warm and soothing and is doing the body all sorts of good.
Spicy turmeric tea. You will get addicted and feel like awesomeness.
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The stuff. Ground turmeric, ground ginger, saigon cinnamon and hot water. Additional yums with a little lemon and some honey if you like it sweet or have a scratchy throat.
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Spices into a drinking vessel (I like a big jar)
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And in goes the hot water. Give it a good stir and a squeeze of lemon (and sweeten if your gonna)
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And watch it swirl. A drink that keeps this girl happy and healthy.
Something great to look forward.
-C
- 1 tablespoon ground turmeric
- 1 teaspoon ground saigon cinnamon (can use regular, but it’s not as spicy sweet)
- 1/2 teaspoon ground ginger
- 1 1/2- 2 cups hot water (not quite boiling)
- honey to taste (I only use if my throat is sore)
- lemon juice (optional)
Note… My measurements are just guidelines. You might like a little less turmeric or more ginger so make this drink any way that tastes best for you.
Grab yourself a big mug or jar, add in the spices and hot water, honey if you want it and a squeeze of lemon juice if using. Stir with a spoon and drink. Keep spoon handy to give it a good stir every now and then
Holy crap, it’s Easter…. Well Happy Easter to you (if you celebrate it). And if no, happy beautiful spring day. It’s going to be so nice and warm and sunny today. I am really excited… spring is finally here!
This past week was epic for th house. The roof was ripped off and now the new addition is up! It all started on Monday when the mr got a phone call asking if he could go let the guys into the house(they were a day early). and three days later they were done, the walls and the roof were up!(not the roofing, we are doing that next week) It was like magic ad I couldn’t be happier. The upstairs is now huge and bright. Our new bedroom space is bigger then our entire living space now. I am all like Woo hoo!
When the guys were finished, the work started for us. We had to finish knocking all the walls down and ripping up all the shit floors. It’s been a hard on the body kinda week of work and every single muscle in my body is aching. (the mrs too but he doesn’t complain. He is a champ) 5 years ago I was able to rip apart a house and be like ” what what” the next day. Now I am like What what no.. creak creak” I am officially an old lady and now I need a break!
WE are taking a semi break today( although there might be a little framing and light cleaning might be in store) because it’s Sunday and it’s Easter. The family is getting together for food, fun and a egg hunt, which I am really excited about., and lots of sitting outside absorbing the warm sunshine and fresh clean springtime air. It’s going to be great. I am even planning on bringing a book and passing out on the back porch at some point.
What about you, any fantastic Easter/Sunday plans? Are you going to spend the day hunting down specially hidden Easter eggs, eating lots of chocolate eggs (and carrots I hope) and hanging with loved one?. I sure hope so. And don’t forget to get outside. We could all use the fresh air.
Some stuff to read if you get sick of all the jelly beans.
-Ever wonder how those magazines get those amazing photos of food? Well this article explains it all. Ceci N’Est Pas Ice Cream (Actually It’s Lard And Food Coloring)
-I love spring and all the pretty bloom that comes with it.
-I went and got avocados right after I saw this (haven’t tried it yet though) HOW TO MAKE AN AVOCADO ROSE
-I was thinking about making the pup a new bed. I really like this design. (and fabric)
-Did you know that Ikea sold candy? I had no clue but here is a guide for the good and the bad. Top 10 IKEA Pick & Mix Candies You Need to Try
-One mans weed is another mans salad. How to Cook with Weeds
– I sometime think I can see a few more colors then is normal….A New Study Helps Explain Why Some People Can See So Many Colors
–These plates would make me so happy.. and not just for Easter. And these molds even though I don’t need them
–Trend Alert: 8 Techno Toilets cause we all need a gadgety toilet seat(no, not really)
– Is this for real? Unicorn Kisses Seltzer Water... As a seltzer water junky, I really freaking hope so.
And a couple photos.
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As a kid, my favorite holiday was Easter. Every year my parents would fill up brightly colored plastic baskets with handfuls of neon colored plastic “grass” and top it with all sorts of candy, coloring books, bubble, and sidewalk chalk. They were beautiful and amazing. It was like getting a basket of fun and a bunch of sugary candy to keep you going to have all that fun all day long. And the egg hunts. Plastic eggs full of candy hidden all over the house ans yard. We would all have our emptied out baskets running around full of excitement, ready to take out any sibling in our path just to be the one to get the next egg. We were ruthless and I am pretty sure every year someone would end up crying. Now, as an adult, I am not allowed to participate in the egg hunt. (but I still try to make my sibling cry) Nope, now I get to hide the eggs and sit back and watch the new generation of littles tripping each other and stealing eggs from one another. The carnage!
And also at Easter there is cake. Is there a rule that says you have to make carrot cake for Easter? I think there must be because it is when everyone and their moms busts this cake out. And everyone’s carrot cake it the best because they made it the right way, like with raisins or pineapple or walnuts. There are so many things that can be added to this cake that it’s a little overwhelming. So I made a carrot cake that was mainly about the carrots. Nothing added, no nuts raisins or coconut (although you could add i if you wanted) and it’s made into a pretty bundt cake, which in turn makes mine the best.
This here cake was destined for tomorrows Easter table. I made it with no nut produces cause the nephew has the deadly nut allergy. But when I went and made the date sauce, I kinda let that slip and used almond milk. Oops. So now I have a whole big carrot cake sitting on the counter with it’s destiny shattered. So sad, but I think its will survive cause the mris really into it and has already eaten a few pieces. I figure that because it’s a carrot cake, he can eat a few more. It’s almost like eating a vegetable….almost. And now I need to make a new cake to bring over or I might just stop at the store and buy some oreos on my way over tomorrow. The littles will like that.
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The stuff. A bowl containing flour, salt, baking powder ans baking soda. Also need a few really big carrots, a bit of brown sugar, and ground up cinnamon and ginger. Coconut oil, soy milk, an orange (for it’s zest) and a little apple cider vinegar are going into this cake too.
Start by chopping up 2 of the biggest carrots and tossing the into a pot with about an inch of water. Stick the pot on the stove and cook until the carrots are nice and tender. Then blend those tender carrots up.
I had a hard time not eating all of the carrot puree, so maybe if you want, cook up a few extra carrots ans have yourself a pre-carrot cake carrot snack.
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And while the carrot puree is still warm, add in the coconut oil and the sugar. Mix it until the oil is melted ans it’s one cohesive mixture.
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And take that last carrot ans grate it up into the flour. Also add in the spices and the zest of the orange.
Note. I used a small holed grater so that the carrot shreds would be small and add texture to the cake but not make it too chunky. But use a normal grater..it’s all about your carrots chunk prefernce here.
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Now dump the wet carrot mixture into the dry and start to mix
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Adding in the soy and the vinegar to complete the batter.
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And scooped that batter into a oiled bundt pan and get it into the (preheated) oven to bake.
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After about an hour, the cake is ready, golden brown and smelling like any good carrot cake should. Remove from the oven and turn the cake out from the cake pan and stick on on a rack to cool. This cake is waiting for me to decide what, or if I want to frost, drizzle, or sauce it up….. I think it wants as little something.
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Ok, I figured it out. Date sauce.
The stuff. Fresh medjool dates, almond milk and sea salt.
Date (pits removed) into the food processor along with the milk and a good pinch of sea salt. Blend until it turns into a nice smooth, fluffy sauce.
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Take that sauce and spread it all over the cake. As much or as little as you want (you might have left over date sauce but its ok, you can just eat. It will last for about a week in the fridge and goes great with just about anything) Once fully sauced, sprinkle the cake with flaked sea salt.
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Sliced, plated, and ready. It’s carrot cake time.
Have a great weekend, eat all your candy at once!
-C
Makes a bundt cake (but could be made into a 9×13 sheet cake)
- 2 1/2 cups flour
- 1 teaspoon baking soda
- 2 teaspoons baking powder
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 3/4 cup brown sugar
- 1/3 coconut cup oilany oil works)
- 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
- 3 large carrots (makes about 2 cups carrot puree and 1/2 cup of raw grated carrot)
- 1 heaping tablespoon cinnamon
- 1 teaspoon ginger
Salted Date Caramel
- 1 cup medjool dates (pitted)
- 1 cup almond milk (or any milk you want to use)
- sea salt
Start by chopping up 2 of the biggest carrots and placing them into a pot with water about an inch of water. Stick on stove and bring to a boil then reduce to a simmer until the carrots are fork tender. When done, puree them with any means nessasary (hand blender, regular blender, food processor) Add the coconut oil and sugar to the warm carrot puree and mix until oil is melted.
Preheat oven to 350
In a large separate bowl, mix together the flour, baking soda and powder, salt, and the spices. Grate the smallest carrot in with the dry.
Take the wet carrot mixture and dump into the dry and mix, adding in the soy milk and the vinegar as you mix. Once everything is completely incorporated, pour mixture into a well oiled bundt pan and stick the cake into the preheated oven
While the cake is baking, make the date sauce. Just take the dates, remove pits if they have any and place in a food processor with a good pinch of sea salt and the almond milk. Pulse a few times, scrap down the sides, and keep blended, stopping to scrap sides if needed, until a nice thick smooth sauce is formed. If you want a thinner sauce, just add more milk til you get your desired consistency.
Now check cake. Once it’s golden brown and a tester comes out clean (between 50 minutes to an hour) remove from oven. Let cool for a few minutes in pan the then turn it over onto a wire rack to finish cooling off. Once the cake is cool, dump the date sauce all over it then sprinkle with another good few pinches of the sea salt.
And now eat it. This is a cake that needs no fork, but you can go ahead and use one if you must.
THE LOVELY CRAZY
April 19, 2016 by maximios • Blog
Holy crap, I swear that everyone in my family is made up of pasta and meat. Over the past few weeks with all of the family spending so many meals together and nobody really in the mood to get fancy and do much cooking, the dinner go to’s have been either some type of pasta, potato, or bread with meat dish. Super meat and starchy as hell. (there is usually a veggie somewhere) Good thing I pack my own lettuce and carrots where ever I go.(no joke) But can’t blame them really. Food has not been top priority. If they will eat pasta, well then that’s what they will eat and the veggies are starting to make there way back. (I am making zucchini noodles for family dinner tonight)
But yesterday the mr and I spent the day just the two of us (it has been so long) and made dinner at home. I, as well as the mr, wanted nothing to do with pasta, potatoes, or bread. (he even passed up pizza…. what the WHAT) Just simple dinner with no one to cook for, no picky little littles to have to contend with and a fridge full of all the prettiest fresh veggies I can eat!
We (really me) went all out fresh with a hugmongo salad of broccoli and lentils. Super quick and easy to make, really fresh, crispy, and hardy. A salad just for us, although I think I might make it again for tonight to bring to the sisters house for dinner.
A salad that that makes me (and the mr) happy to eat and will make you happy too!
The stuff. A nice nig head of broccoli, a small red onion, half an avocado, some dried lentils, water, red wine vinegar and salt and pepper.
Start by getting those lentils and water into a pot and on the stove to cook. Bring to boil then turn to a simmer, stick on a lid and let cook until lentils are tender but not mushy. (about 20 minutes)
Once you have got those going, chop up the broccoli and the onion into little bits(various size is a ok)
Toss those chopped up veggies into anice bowl and add a good few splashes of vinegar and sprinkle with salt ans pepper. Give it a good toss and let it sit on the counter to meld while the lentils are cooking.
Oh hey, those lentils be cooked. Dump the whole pot (if there is little extra liquid, dump that in too) into the bowl of chopped veggies and toss it all around.
And lastly , slice up the avocado into chunks (smallish sized) and gently mix that in.
Hooray! A no pasta, starch, mayo smothered salad for everyone!
Happy eating.
-C
Serves 3-4 as a side. 2 as a meal
Place dried lentils into a pot with water. Bring to a boil then turn heat to a simmer and place a lid on pot. Cook for about 20 minutes or until the lentils are cooked, but still firm. If you think the lentils are still under cooked and there is not liquid in the pot, add another 1/4 cup.
While the lentils are cooking, grab a big bowl. Chop the broccoli into little pieces and toss into that bowl. Also chop up the red onion into thin slices then into smaller pieces (or big if you like it like that) and toss that in with the broccoli. Drizzle the chop with vinegar and sprinkle with salt. Set aside until the lentils are cooked.
Once the lentils are done and still hot, dump them in with the chop. Give a really good mix to combine it all then grab your avocado, cut it into little chunk and add it in and gently give it a toss. Season with more salt and pepper and if needed.
This is a salad that tastes good just made, really good 10 minutes later, but tastes best after sitting for an hour or two.
Whenever you decide to eat it, just grab a fork and dig in!
Not going to lie. Today is a hard day. It’s Sean’s birthday… He would be 27.
Thump thump (that’s my head hitting a wall)
I am not at the point yet where I think of Sean and am not sad because well, I am sad all the time. But I really want to get there, where when I think of him, it makes me happy, or well, more happy then sad. I know it’s going to take time (I just have to say that I hate how everyone says it just takes time. No shit) and that I will get there someday. But today, I am, for him and for me, try spending today thinking about all the good times and not be so sad.
So yeah, going to spend 1/2 the day doing some work (keeps the mind at bay) and the other half with the family. They are grilling up hot dogs while I eat lettuce by the head, and we are just going celebrate Sean the way we celebrate everything in our family. Together with food. We will sit around, talking about everything and nothing, let the littles run around , let the dogs run wild, and just be. The is sun is shinning, the world is warm, and the family will be surrounded by each other. (like everyday for the past two weeks.. so much family time) And of course Sean will be the center of attention, not there physically, but in all the spirit.
And as for taking the day to chill, I am postponing my day of nothing until tomorrow and locking my door on the world. I love my family oh so much but if I don’t take a day to myself… I might bite someones head off.
Anyway. Got some stuff from the good old internet that happen to be of some interest to me.
-Did you know it’s National Park Week.. National parks are the best so you should go get your butt to the closest one, it’s free! (Bring a picnic and some hiking boots)
– This coloring book needs to happen.
– I feel in love with these photos that a mom took of her kids. They are amazing
-Screw GI Joes, if you want plastic action figures get these. Yoga Joes
–House love.
-Ever wonder how museums keep their art collections clean? Check this guy out cleaning a Pollack. There is no way I could do anything close to that, I would loss my shit.
-I will be looking for this book next time I am at the library (for the littles of course) ‘Can I Eat That?’ a Whimsical New Children’s Book
–Tree houses in house plants.. two of my favorite things together in one.
-What Do Recyclable, Biodegradable & Compostable Really Mean?
-This is just one reason I avoid eating out.. I am paranoid, and for good reason… ‘Farm To Fable’? Tampa Probe Finds Many Restaurants Lie About Sourcing
Some new pictures from the past week.
Hope everyone is having a great day and enjoying life.
Happy Birthday Sean, Love you!
-C
There is a big difference between thinking about doing something and being motivated enough to actually do it. I have been thinking a lot about doing some baking (among other things, like being a functional human) but I haven’t been feeling all that motivated to actually do it. To my defence we haven’t really been home and food situations have been taking place at sisters or moms house. So yeah, can’t exactly bake a cake, take pictures, and not pull my hear out with 15 people running around the kitchen.. But yesterday I had the afternoon at home to get some shit done and it was the perfect time to open the door,(it wasalmost warm enough to have the door open!!!) put on some tunes, and bake a little something something before we headed over to dinner at my sisters.
Nothing to fancy or overly pretentious, just something that people will eat (especially my mom, she needs all the cake in the word). And a loaf because loafs travel well and sometimes a cake just calls for 90 degree angles. Chocolate because it’s chocolate (everyone likes chocolate) with and orange glaze for a slight pop of brightness and honestly, cause I bought a shit ton of oranges a few weeks back and they need to be used up asap.
A welcome back to the kitchen, simple chocolate loaf cake. And after it was devoured by the family (mom loved it) I thought aboutchanging the name to a “Freak Yeah, Damn Tasty, Super Fantastic, Simple Chocolate Cake”….. but that’s kind of a long name.
The stuff. Got abowl with flour, cocoa powder, salt, baking soda and baking powder, and sugar. Then a cup of what is 1/2 soy milkand 1/2 coffee, some vanilla extract, a little apple cider vinegar, and some oil. That’s cake stuff. The glaze stuff is the powdered sugar, the orange, and another pinch of salt and splash of vanilla.
Super simple. Whisk all the dry together
Then just dump all the wet stuff into the dry and mix it all up until everything is evenly incorporated.
Batter goes into a greased loaf pan and into the oven…….45 minutes later…… it’s all cooked and stuff. Ttake it out and let it cool.
While the cake is cooling, make that glaze. Powdered sugar, orange zest, a pinch of salt and a splash of vanilla go into a bowl. Whisk together with just enough orange juice to make it all come together and is all glaze like.
When the cake is completely cooled, drizzle (dump) glaze all over cake. And really, make sure the cake is cooled or else the cake will just absorb the glaze.
Drip drip drip…. Next time I will remember to do this over a plate or something, there is sugary glaze everywhere.
And now the loaf cake is done, ready for eating.
Have a great day, get motivated and start planning for the WEEKEND! (Cake should be included in those plans)
-C
Makes one loaf cake
the glaze
Preheat oven to 350
In a large bowl, mix together the flour, cocoa powder, sugar, salt, baking soda and powder. Dump in the rest of the ingredients and mix until evenly incorporated. Pour batter into a greased a 9x5loaf pan then stick into the oven. Bake for about 45 minutes or until a tester comes out clean
To make the glaze, mix the sugar, a tiny pinch of salt and the zest of the orange together. Add in a splash of vanilla and slowly add in orange juice until the glaze is the consistency that you want.(not to thick or to thin)
Once cake has completely cooled, drizzle the glaze all over the cake.
Now you can grab a knife, cut a slice,and call it a day.
Sean Tyler Stem. April 17, 1989- March 29, 2016
About a week and a half ago my little brother passed away of a drug overdose. Mother Fucker, fuck fucker fuck.
I am okay. I might not be in the best head space being that I am so fucking sad and feel wounded, but okay. . Everything just feels so weird. It’s like a part of me is missing but at the same time it still doesn’t seem real. So yeah. Fuck fuck fuck. (apparently I swear A LOT when I am sad)
I want people to know about Sean and what and why it happened, but at the same time I kinda don’t want to talk about it yet. It’s still really raw. Also I am not the greatest with emotions and right now I am still processing and feeling and just being. But I do want people to know that Sean may have had his problems but he was such amazing, kind, sometimes a cocky, but such a talented person. He was so full of the brightest light, laughter, generosity and so so much love. He really was a great person (and I am not just saying that cause he is dead) A person that I am so blessed and lucky to get to call my little brother. He made everyone smile, even when you didn’t feel like it. Every person that came into his life are greater for having had him here.
The rest of the family is doing. It’s so weird being together as a family without one of us, it seems so off because wealways do everything together and I keep getting that weird feeling that I am waiting for his ass to show up (he was always late for everything). Oh man, it’s a hurt that will not quit. So yeah, we have been spending all of our time together (so much togetherness it’s kinda sick). We laugh and cry and get angry and are sad, and go for walks and eat (well they eat. People keep bringing food, all meat pasta dishes so I am just nibbling on carrots… FYI people, sad people eat veggies too!) It’s been rough, but we have so much love for each other, the same sick sense of humor (the things we have been saying…and he can’t talk back. HA!) and are so close. We truly are so lucky to have each other. (even if we are driving each other crazy)
And Life, gots to keep doing it. So I am going to start trying to get a little consistency back into mine this week, start working on the house again, catch up on bills and paperwork, and clean the sheets on my bed. (it’s been 2 weeks.. gross) Also going to try and do a post or two… I miss it and the kitchen is my therapy.
I miss my little brother. He was such a shit, a good shit, but a shit no less. But just because he is dead doesn’t mean he doesn’t exist. He will always exist.
-C
Here is the obituary of Sean T Stem written by my sister Shannon with the help of her friend Hilary.
[Above photo was taken off of his facebook page. It’s one of my favorites.]
For the longest time now, I have been drinking a little turmeric with a little lemon first thing in the morning. It started as a medicinal drink, but quickly became a tasty habit. I have some stupid weird circulation condition called raynaud’s where changes in temp turn my fingers and toes into icicles. And for me, the worst time of the year for this condition is the spring (but spring is still my favorite). All the up and down of temperature and the wet cold damp weather is my trigger, not to forget to mention that those temp swings can get a girl sick. (I can’t get sick!!)
So way back when I started to drink for my health and the feeling in my fingers. Turmeric, ginger, and cinnamon , all super warming spices that help greatly with blood circulation, not to mention a whole bunch of other good things. (I could tell you and go on and on, but you can just look it up yourself) Ever since I started drinking and eating lots of these spices, my raynauds has gotten soooo sooo soooo much better. I still get cold finger and toes, but no where as severe and the way less often.
Now a few weeks ago the mr started making himself an afternoon turmeric tea. He read something on the internet about how it’s the best anti-inflammatory and good for achy joints. (Sure dude, listen to the internet and not me) Being a big guy doing construction and such, he gets really achy joints and there is only so much arnica and frozen peas a guy can do. So now he drinks this and I think he is starting to notice a difference. (less time with the frozen peas) And since he is making himself tea every afternoon, I started to make a spicy tea for myself in the afternoons too. I figured that a little extra goodness to ward off the chills and any larking illness is only a plus. It’s our after lunch treat that tastes good, is warm and soothing and is doing the body all sorts of good.
Spicy turmeric tea. You will get addicted and feel like awesomeness.
The stuff. Ground turmeric, ground ginger, saigon cinnamon and hot water. Additional yums with a little lemon and some honey if you like it sweet or have a scratchy throat.
Spices into a drinking vessel (I like a big jar)
And in goes the hot water. Give it a good stir and a squeeze of lemon (and sweeten if your gonna)
And watch it swirl. A drink that keeps this girl happy and healthy.
Something great to look forward.
-C
Note… My measurements are just guidelines. You might like a little less turmeric or more ginger so make this drink any way that tastes best for you.
Grab yourself a big mug or jar, add in the spices and hot water, honey if you want it and a squeeze of lemon juice if using. Stir with a spoon and drink. Keep spoon handy to give it a good stir every now and then
Holy crap, it’s Easter…. Well Happy Easter to you (if you celebrate it). And if no, happy beautiful spring day. It’s going to be so nice and warm and sunny today. I am really excited… spring is finally here!
This past week was epic for th house. The roof was ripped off and now the new addition is up! It all started on Monday when the mr got a phone call asking if he could go let the guys into the house(they were a day early). and three days later they were done, the walls and the roof were up!(not the roofing, we are doing that next week) It was like magic ad I couldn’t be happier. The upstairs is now huge and bright. Our new bedroom space is bigger then our entire living space now. I am all like Woo hoo!
When the guys were finished, the work started for us. We had to finish knocking all the walls down and ripping up all the shit floors. It’s been a hard on the body kinda week of work and every single muscle in my body is aching. (the mrs too but he doesn’t complain. He is a champ) 5 years ago I was able to rip apart a house and be like ” what what” the next day. Now I am like What what no.. creak creak” I am officially an old lady and now I need a break!
WE are taking a semi break today( although there might be a little framing and light cleaning might be in store) because it’s Sunday and it’s Easter. The family is getting together for food, fun and a egg hunt, which I am really excited about., and lots of sitting outside absorbing the warm sunshine and fresh clean springtime air. It’s going to be great. I am even planning on bringing a book and passing out on the back porch at some point.
What about you, any fantastic Easter/Sunday plans? Are you going to spend the day hunting down specially hidden Easter eggs, eating lots of chocolate eggs (and carrots I hope) and hanging with loved one?. I sure hope so. And don’t forget to get outside. We could all use the fresh air.
Some stuff to read if you get sick of all the jelly beans.
-Ever wonder how those magazines get those amazing photos of food? Well this article explains it all. Ceci N’Est Pas Ice Cream (Actually It’s Lard And Food Coloring)
-I love spring and all the pretty bloom that comes with it.
-I went and got avocados right after I saw this (haven’t tried it yet though) HOW TO MAKE AN AVOCADO ROSE
-I was thinking about making the pup a new bed. I really like this design. (and fabric)
-Did you know that Ikea sold candy? I had no clue but here is a guide for the good and the bad. Top 10 IKEA Pick & Mix Candies You Need to Try
-One mans weed is another mans salad. How to Cook with Weeds
– I sometime think I can see a few more colors then is normal….A New Study Helps Explain Why Some People Can See So Many Colors
–These plates would make me so happy.. and not just for Easter. And these molds even though I don’t need them
–Trend Alert: 8 Techno Toilets cause we all need a gadgety toilet seat(no, not really)
– Is this for real? Unicorn Kisses Seltzer Water... As a seltzer water junky, I really freaking hope so.
And a couple photos.
As a kid, my favorite holiday was Easter. Every year my parents would fill up brightly colored plastic baskets with handfuls of neon colored plastic “grass” and top it with all sorts of candy, coloring books, bubble, and sidewalk chalk. They were beautiful and amazing. It was like getting a basket of fun and a bunch of sugary candy to keep you going to have all that fun all day long. And the egg hunts. Plastic eggs full of candy hidden all over the house ans yard. We would all have our emptied out baskets running around full of excitement, ready to take out any sibling in our path just to be the one to get the next egg. We were ruthless and I am pretty sure every year someone would end up crying. Now, as an adult, I am not allowed to participate in the egg hunt. (but I still try to make my sibling cry) Nope, now I get to hide the eggs and sit back and watch the new generation of littles tripping each other and stealing eggs from one another. The carnage!
And also at Easter there is cake. Is there a rule that says you have to make carrot cake for Easter? I think there must be because it is when everyone and their moms busts this cake out. And everyone’s carrot cake it the best because they made it the right way, like with raisins or pineapple or walnuts. There are so many things that can be added to this cake that it’s a little overwhelming. So I made a carrot cake that was mainly about the carrots. Nothing added, no nuts raisins or coconut (although you could add i if you wanted) and it’s made into a pretty bundt cake, which in turn makes mine the best.
This here cake was destined for tomorrows Easter table. I made it with no nut produces cause the nephew has the deadly nut allergy. But when I went and made the date sauce, I kinda let that slip and used almond milk. Oops. So now I have a whole big carrot cake sitting on the counter with it’s destiny shattered. So sad, but I think its will survive cause the mris really into it and has already eaten a few pieces. I figure that because it’s a carrot cake, he can eat a few more. It’s almost like eating a vegetable….almost. And now I need to make a new cake to bring over or I might just stop at the store and buy some oreos on my way over tomorrow. The littles will like that.
The stuff. A bowl containing flour, salt, baking powder ans baking soda. Also need a few really big carrots, a bit of brown sugar, and ground up cinnamon and ginger. Coconut oil, soy milk, an orange (for it’s zest) and a little apple cider vinegar are going into this cake too.
Start by chopping up 2 of the biggest carrots and tossing the into a pot with about an inch of water. Stick the pot on the stove and cook until the carrots are nice and tender. Then blend those tender carrots up.
I had a hard time not eating all of the carrot puree, so maybe if you want, cook up a few extra carrots ans have yourself a pre-carrot cake carrot snack.
And while the carrot puree is still warm, add in the coconut oil and the sugar. Mix it until the oil is melted ans it’s one cohesive mixture.
And take that last carrot ans grate it up into the flour. Also add in the spices and the zest of the orange.
Note. I used a small holed grater so that the carrot shreds would be small and add texture to the cake but not make it too chunky. But use a normal grater..it’s all about your carrots chunk prefernce here.
Now dump the wet carrot mixture into the dry and start to mix
Adding in the soy and the vinegar to complete the batter.
And scooped that batter into a oiled bundt pan and get it into the (preheated) oven to bake.
After about an hour, the cake is ready, golden brown and smelling like any good carrot cake should. Remove from the oven and turn the cake out from the cake pan and stick on on a rack to cool. This cake is waiting for me to decide what, or if I want to frost, drizzle, or sauce it up….. I think it wants as little something.
Ok, I figured it out. Date sauce.
The stuff. Fresh medjool dates, almond milk and sea salt.
Date (pits removed) into the food processor along with the milk and a good pinch of sea salt. Blend until it turns into a nice smooth, fluffy sauce.
Take that sauce and spread it all over the cake. As much or as little as you want (you might have left over date sauce but its ok, you can just eat. It will last for about a week in the fridge and goes great with just about anything) Once fully sauced, sprinkle the cake with flaked sea salt.
Sliced, plated, and ready. It’s carrot cake time.
Have a great weekend, eat all your candy at once!
-C
Makes a bundt cake (but could be made into a 9×13 sheet cake)
Salted Date Caramel
Start by chopping up 2 of the biggest carrots and placing them into a pot with water about an inch of water. Stick on stove and bring to a boil then reduce to a simmer until the carrots are fork tender. When done, puree them with any means nessasary (hand blender, regular blender, food processor) Add the coconut oil and sugar to the warm carrot puree and mix until oil is melted.
Preheat oven to 350
In a large separate bowl, mix together the flour, baking soda and powder, salt, and the spices. Grate the smallest carrot in with the dry.
Take the wet carrot mixture and dump into the dry and mix, adding in the soy milk and the vinegar as you mix. Once everything is completely incorporated, pour mixture into a well oiled bundt pan and stick the cake into the preheated oven
While the cake is baking, make the date sauce. Just take the dates, remove pits if they have any and place in a food processor with a good pinch of sea salt and the almond milk. Pulse a few times, scrap down the sides, and keep blended, stopping to scrap sides if needed, until a nice thick smooth sauce is formed. If you want a thinner sauce, just add more milk til you get your desired consistency.
Now check cake. Once it’s golden brown and a tester comes out clean (between 50 minutes to an hour) remove from oven. Let cool for a few minutes in pan the then turn it over onto a wire rack to finish cooling off. Once the cake is cool, dump the date sauce all over it then sprinkle with another good few pinches of the sea salt.
And now eat it. This is a cake that needs no fork, but you can go ahead and use one if you must.